Pričevanje

Ko sem prišel prvič k Benu na referenčno terapijo sem imel dva problema – nisem se znal postaviti zase in vedno sem preveč dajal na mnenje drugih ljudi. Po terapiji se počutim kot, da sem ponovno star deset let in spet se počutim popolnoma neobremenjenega. Pri tej novi tehniki me navdušuje to, da je popolnoma vsak človek sposoben najti in ozavestiti vzorce, ki so vzroki naših težav, ne glede kakšne so te naše težave. In kar je najpomembnejše – takoj jih lahko zamenjamo s pravilnimi vzorci  in problem rešimo v trenutku. Ben je izreden človek in učitelj, popolnoma predan svojemu delu in pomoči drugim. Veselim se sodelovanja z Benom in Petro.

Miha Žmahar, Ljubljana


Petra & Ben, lepo pozdravljena !

Sem Miha, tisti, ki se je prejšnji teden na vajini predstavitvi v Krškem prepustil Benovemu terapevtskemu prijemu. Namenoma se nisem nemudoma oglasil, saj sem želel videti, če bo bolj sproščeno počutje vztrajalo. Po dobrem tednu lahko rečem, da se v resnici počutim nekoliko drugače, lažji in manj obremenjen… Očitno se je nekaj premaknilo.

Miha, Krško


Ko sem prišla na terapijo, so me pestile raznovrstne težave -žalovanje ob izgubi drage osebe, predvsem pa strahovi in občutek nemoči. Mislila sem, da vem kaj me pesti, pa sem bila še kako presenečena! Moj dejanski vzrok je tičal v nečem, za kar sem menila, da je že zdavnaj razrešeno. Spoznala sem kako malo ljudje poznamo dejanske vzroke in referenčna terapija je tista, ki nam jih razkrije. Ko enkrat vemo, kaj je tisto, kar nas ovira, je razreševanje tega dosti lažje. Počutim se bolj mirno ter se veselim prihodnosti. Vsekakor bi terapijo priporočala vsem, ki si želijo ali premagati blokade v življenju ali preprosto zaživeti še bolj polno življenje.

Cristy Nikolič, Ljubljana


“I had big problems with my thyroid gland, and also gynecological problems for which I had already had one operation, and was told that I must have another. For all of these problems, Ben discovered the causes… and changes were quickly seen. The gynecologist could not believe it – the tests were normal, and I didn’t need another operation! Also, the problems with the thryoid were fixed…”
Tamara, Brežice (extract from Jana magazine, 6.4.2010)
“Financially I am comfortable; I have happy family life; nothing is lacking; but I felt completely empty. Without any will or any energy… already after the first session (with Ben) I felt much better. Now, the emptiness has completely gone!
Today I know exactly what I want – before I was indecisive.
I am also especially grateful to Ben because he helped me to say goodbye to my dead Father. When 20 years ago he died, he wanted me to take his hand. I didn’t accept it, because my Father didn’t know how to show love.
Now my heart no longer hurts, and my soul is at ease. I am really grateful to Ben – I found peace again.”
Alojz Fink, Novo Mesto

After 2 therapies with Ben, an intense work that we did together regarding my childhood traumas, my life has started to change enormously indeed – for the better! … and to effect indirectly also the lives of people very close to me… some things & situations change at light speed, others with a “normal” speed, however – persistently. Sometimes I just can not do anything except helplessly observe what’s going on and eventually also myself to go with the flow… 

Yes Ben….love is indeed life, and life is love! And thank heaven for you -> you are really the man with the mission…. and thanks for Petra, who brought you to us in Slovenia!!!

Tina S., Ljubljana


Ben, I just wanted to spend a moment telling you how I feel about our healing session. 

I feel such gratitude to you for being the person who has helped me understand myself better from a really core place… Most importantly though, it was through your ancestral guided visualizations that for the first time in this life I felt unconditional love from within in the deepest form I have ever felt.

No words can tell you how profound that experience was for me, and how much I feel you have changed my life…

Love

Megajn Halifax


Hi there!
My name is Elfa Snape and if you remember, I visited you last summer. Since then a few things have changed for the better. ^___^ I applied for the reality show Slovenia Got Talent and on the 15th of this month I went there and sung my soul out. I feel really happy about it because I overcame my fear of people and managed to sing my best yet (let’s forget I forgot a few lyrics, shall we? ) and I really think that the judges were happy with me – they said that they were pleasantly surprised and happy that I overcame it as well (I wrote about it in the application). 

Anyway, I just wanted to write you about it and once again thank you for all that you’ve done for me.

Happy New Year 2011!
With best wishes,

Elfa Snape


I wanted to let you know that the work you did has benefited me a great deal! I have been doing really well. Feeling better than I ever have. I am hesitant to even speak about it because I am so amazed but at the same time so thankful and want to be aware and keep recognizing the positive changes that have occurred so far.I often find myself saying I can’t believe I feel as good as I do. For the first time I am hopeful and not stuck (like we talked about).I feel a sense of freedom.I have been way more calm, balanced and am handling things better lately than I have in the past. I am trying to trust that this is the way it is suppossed to be and will be, that it is my God given right to feel this way.I am able to work through difficult days and episodes a lot differently than I had before.I am making progress in may ways. I am thankful that this work has left me much more balanced and is helping me live and feel rather than exist.
Thank you again…
All the Best,
Megan 


Hi Ben,
It’s been a month now. I guess I wanted to wait confirmation that something had shifted in me but now I realize that the situation is in constant evolution. Plus, with 2 jobs, a social life and a new boyfriend (!), life is pretty busy :)  

I think it’s the first time that I really felt empathy and compassion for my father (like stepping into his shoes) although I had been trying for a while on a purely intellectual level… I felt a sense of peace during and after.

The first week following the session was absolutely fantastic and amazing. The following days, I could feel a sense of “fullness” in my chest and of contentment that I can’t remember having felt before, and I think the most appropriate word to describe it is pure love.

I remember meeting (socially) 4 new people one evening and feeling really connected to them as if I had known them for a long time. These kind of magic moments are always too rare.
Incidentally, my new relationship started 3 days later, but clearly that sense of fullness happened before.

I don’t feel any anger or depressed feelings when thinking of my parents and I don’t spend time every day resenting them as I used to, I hope it lasts … I feel that the sense of empathy, compassion and affection for them has started to grow…

I’m really happy that modern technology made our two sessions possible and I’ll never thank you enough for your help.

Love,
Delphine, Paris, France (yoga teacher & environmental engineer)


I was sexually abused when I was 6… and Ben helped me ENORMOUSLY with Reference point Therapy. Really. When I started talking, it was like the energy in the room hugged me and he… listened. He was encouraging me, explaining and at the end, healing. That session was crucial for my travel toward loving myself. So today I have a wonderful boyfriend and my sex life is… woohooo 

Anonymous

Ben, I just wanted to say a huge thank you working with me. It was an honour to work with you. I really loved our sessions, they were painful at times but so worth it. I feel like a new person, much lighter, more coherent, happier and just free. You’ve helped me so much. I hope the medical tests will prove it too. I look forward to catching up with you next month and already looking forward to coming to Slovenia next year. Namaste. 

Malina Bowman (Miss Oestrogen Positive)